Tuesday, March 27, 2012

How to be Happy Without a Romantic Feeling

Journal Essay 1:
Love may sounds like a complicated word to some people. In fact, it is not. You can get love from everyone and everything around you. For instance, your love would come from your family, siblings, colleagues, friends or best friends. All of this is enough to keep you through life and you can imagine how important they are as a part of your life. That is why it does not mean that you have to have a romantic love in order to make you happy, if you follow these simple steps.
First, the easiest thing to do is to be happy with yourself. Keep doing things that you have always love, such as reading, painting or meditating. You do not have to care about what other people think, just do whatever you love and feel special. Second simple thing to do is to keep yourself busy. When you surround yourself with work and focus on it, you will feel useful to yourself as well as to people around you. Also, you will not have the time to think about something else like love, or loneliness which could lower your self-confidence. Third, if enjoying yourself alone or doing all the work does not help, you can always have your friends to keep you company. Spending time or hanging out with friends you are comfortable to be around with is something that can also make you happy. Forget all about the romantic feeling and just have fun with all your friends.
In summary, love happens when we least expect it. Love will come with patient and time; but in that period of time, you should always enjoy yourself and make the most out of it. Finding happiness without love is not the hardest thing to do as long as you believe that it is always there for you.

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